We are The Society for Creative Snarcasm.
AKA: The Snarks
Woo-woo
We don't do woo-woo. When we communicate, it is with spoken words, not with assumptions, telepathy, tantrums, physical violence or emotional games.
As individuals, we own our own actions, thoughts and expectations. If we expect results, we need to ask for them bluntly and tactfully. We don't expect anyone else to fight our individual battles. We can, however, expect a warm safe haven to come crawling back to when one of us does venture out to battle.
We are not a spiritual group. Individually, we follow our own paths and practice in our own ways. Occasionally, we agree to combine efforts to create a spiritual event, but our group is not in itself a means to spiritual practice or education. We differ in opinions, feelings, and levels of skepticism for various religious concepts. We don't endorse or condone any one religion, and staunchly refuse to build our group around any specific set of religious values.
We are governed by our own consciences and compassion for humanity. We firmly believe that every individual has a moral compass built in that enables them to determine right from wrong. When our inner guidance system goes awry, the group is there to be gently yet firmly supportive of the basic values of humanity to get the individual back on track. Sometimes one may feel a need to go on "evil binges". Much like drinking, smoking, and promiscuity this evil tendency is human nature and will not in itself ostracize a member from the group. It will, however, make us very, very cranky and opinionated.
We enjoy Communication in all its forms. We value a variety of words, whether complex or crude. We also value the ability to articulate a thought effectively. While some of us tend toward being overly critical, skeptical or sarcastic, as a whole we try to maintain a healthy dose of respect and cognizance of where everyone else is coming from. We take pride in our talents, and push one another toward realizing their full potential. As a result, we at times tend to get over-inflated egos. It's handy to remember that in areas other than ones of our expertise, we each are woefully retarded. Which brings us to our next value.
Humility
Humility. No one stands blameless when conflict comes about. We don't cast blame at others, and we don't search for scapegoats. The first step in conflict resolution is examining one's OWN behavior, whether it be action or inaction. Own up to your own faults and shortcomings, out loud, before pointing out another's. Own the things that surround you. Own the things that happen to you. Own the things that you feel. Own the things that you do. Your path is yours alone, and if you don't seize the power of your own footsteps, you cannot blame others if you step off of the ideal path. If you feel lost, take the initiative to ask for help, instead of waiting for others to find you. Own yourself.
This message has been made possible by coffee. Lots and lots of coffee.